Three Stages In Developing A Healthy Male/Female Relationship

There are 3 stages one must encounter in order to develop a healthy relationship with that special someone.


The first stage is to build a loving relationship with your Creator. Why?

Because it is He that has made you and you did not make yourself. For this simple reason, He is the only one that knows the plan and purpose He has for your life. Without a genuine relationship with your Creator you will fail to meet that special someone. In reality, your Creator is the only one who unites couples in a well balanced union.

The second stage is getting to know you by being honest with yourself. Without being truthful to yourself you will forever be lost in the false self. The false self is the personality you created when you eliminated God’s truth from your life. The real you will appear when you start facing the truth about you. Many people avoid being truthful with themselves in an effort to avoid pain. Unknowing to them, these unresolved painful issues hinder their progress in life. How so? Pain and deception belongs to the laws of death. These laws bring poverty into every area of your life especially when there is an abundance of pain present in your soul. Poverty of the soul kills all progress. However, with God’s help you can face yourself and be healed. Afterwards, these blockages are removed and your life becomes prosperious.

The final stage is getting alone with others, especially that special someone. This fellowship is based on the successful work done in stages one and two. Once you faced the truth about yourself with the Creators help, you prepared yourself for other healthy relationships. Your healthy state of mind draws other vigorous people into your life. In fact, you only want to be around wholesome people. Once this happens, you are ready for that special partner.